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Whether or not fat hatred is malicious, it's still harmful.

I don't know what the motivation is for guys who try to get me on their shoulders at concerts or attempt to lift me gently into bed.

Are you trying to prove to me that I'm "not that heavy"? I enjoy sex, I love meeting new people, and I think there is an incredible power in making intimate connections.

I'm not likely to fit on most of the rides at the amusement park and the thought of eating a meal sitting in a rickety plastic chair puts me on high alert.

If I try to talk to you about fatphobia, about discrimination, about the challenges I face as a fat woman in the world, please don't try to comfort me by telling me people don't mean it, that maybe I'm misreading the situation, the the world isn't out to get me.

Basically, that he's arrived to save me from my terrible, sad, fat life.

I have experienced sexual assault and trauma in my life.Dudes tend to assume that I haven't dated a lot in my life -- or the opposite, that I'm always up for casual sex because I'm desperate for attention.They often come into a relationship believing that my past partners have been abusive or unfaithful, or that my current partner isn't interested in sex and that's why we're poly.You can ride them for as long as you want without a single bruise afterwards. He'll probably even high five you, like "That's my girl!" Not to mention that he probably won't notice if you gain a couple of pounds either.But once we started dating, the kind of fat talk I’d regularly engaged in about myself, usually silently, wouldn’t cut it. When I feel like a failure about my body, that extends into other arenas, making me less enthusiastic about my writing, sure that, somehow, other people are making those same judgments.

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